I believe that we have already know bout priority.. or let me say, the scale of priority. Simple but not easy to take though. Just like Indonesian people said ‘ a theory’.
In the last couple of years, I’ve already know bout my weaknesses being standing between two purposes.. everybody learn I guess.. and I don’t wanna feel that I do all things in perfect.. I’m just trying.
I try to keep two things in controlled.. so I need another ‘theory’.. time.
We are ussually have a purpose or purposes.. something we want, we need and we planed.
Suddenly it come out from no where that we have to choose, change or reverse our directions.. I don’t say we have to letting go one of them but I prefer to called it.. ‘a delay’.. (I was call it a sacrifice.. but we do it all day don’t we?)
Finally, our mind has been devided into 4 sections (based on time definitions) which are; Important and Urgent, Important but not urgent, Urgent but not Important and finally the worst.. Not Important and not Urgent. (I will not explain it now, not yet..)
Well.. when this situation force us to choose, I use those indications but it doesn’t make it easier to define though..
Each time we solving a problems, we’ll learn..
Life is a gamble.. we do not know what will come over us next exactly.. we just make a calculations or analysis for the future and then make a decision.. predictions but still gambled in results.
I don’t know about you but it seems that I always face this ‘funny’ situation.. like devided into pieces..
I had to choose a thing and then delay for the other thing.. most of them became too late.. fade out and slowly dissapear.. sometimes as a punishment as an unresponsible attitude.. I learned to accept. My fault and my mistake. For every decision you’ve made would caused a side effect.. and it will come against you and sometimes haunted you each day.. I was too much to deny my own life and priority. I learned to be brave. Some might need to fixed and some might be to be forget.. we’ll have to be patience while this happened (but patience has a limitation)
Once a decision being made, just assume.. there is not turning back.. time ticking and you have to move on. It is imposible to make a time machine.. and if it is.. it will change nothing.
We always have a choice.. we have to make a decision.. we don’t need time to do this.. we need a brain. If we have to face a similar conditions, choose for your own life is a wise answer.